The difference between growth and insanity
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They say insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting different results. But growth can look very similar. Stay with me. In Hidden Potential, Adam Grant writes that people who go far usually aren’t the most “talented.” They’re the ones who keep showing up even when they’re not good at it yet. He tells the story of a man learning Spanish who didn’t wait to feel confident. Instead, he fumbled his way through conversations with native speakers, making a ton of mistakes. That’s what helped him learn twice as fast. Here’s the difference: Doing the same thing exactly the same way and expecting a new result? That’ll make you crazy. Trying the same thing a little differently each time, without expecting perfection? That’s how you grow. I know you, Reader, want to build something meaningful in your life. You’re juggling a lot. You want to do it “right” because you care so deeply. But what if progress looked more like a messy, curious experiment than a polished plan? What if fumbling your way towards your goals actually is the way? Stop chasing perfection and embrace the messy middle. It's more interesting any way. I’d love to hear what this sparked for you. In Joy, Nyssa P.S. If letting go of perfection and building a solid foundation for sustainable success is what you're after right now, you don't want to miss the Moon Circle this week. It's in celebration of Capricorn, the mountain goat that knows how to make it to the top -- on your own terms. Sign up here. Upcoming Availability:Friday, July 18th 10am-11:30am 3 or 3:30pm Wednesday, July 23rd 11:30am-3pm 🏖️ Summer Vacation: Be sure to get your next session booked now. 😎
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Nyssa Hanger
Life and Biz Coach. Massage Therapist. Aromatherapist. Teacher. Writer.
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