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the key word is PRACTICE
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Back in college, I was assigned to read an article about how romantic relationships could be a place where spiritual paths and practice converge. My mind was blown. At the time, I hadn’t been in any long-term relationships, but I knew this was something I wanted to bring into my future partnerships. And I tried. Turns out, reading about it was MUCH easier than actually doing it. But not impossible. There’s one word that’s been a cornerstone for me on the path of conscious relationship—can you guess what it is? Practice. Just like anything else, learning to approach relationship with awareness—of yourself, your patterns, and what gets stirred up with your beloved—is a skill. It’s not a one-and-done thing. There’s no box to check. Some days I’m very aware of what’s coming up for me. Other days… not so much. The gift is seeing relationship as a teacher—about myself, about others, about my relationship to something greater (beloved, community, God/Goddess/Universe). There’s always more to learn. It’s an ongoing practice. If you’re new to the idea of conscious relationship, you’ll love our latest podcast episode. 🎙️LISTEN HERE Kelly and I share how we each learned about this concept and how we try (key word: try) to bring it into our relationship together. You’ll also hear how we sometimes miss the mark. It’s okay to be imperfect. To be human. To make mistakes. Accepting that in myself makes it easier to accept it in my partner (or maybe it works the other way around? 😄). Take a listen—and if you’re in relationship, share it with your beloved. In Joy, P.S. If you're looking for another great way to connect to your loved one, check out our next Partner Thai Massage Workshop coming soon in February! Learn more here.
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Nyssa Hanger
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