this is our secret 🤫


If there is one thing that helps us to keep pressing publish on our weekly podcast it's this:

Done is better than perfect.

(Believe me, that's also easier said than done!)

I can't tell you how many different versions of our cover art we went through before deciding it's "good enough."

Or how listening back made me realize I didn't get the sound levels right.

Or how many times we've been interrupted by Papi, our dog, barking or chewing things he's not supposed to.

But it's all okay. We just keep going.

That's our secret.

And more than that, we're learning to work with each other even though our approaches to creativity are a bit ... different.

So in celebration of our milestone 10th episode, I wanted to talk about all of that!

🎧Listen Here to Ep. 10 on Perfectionism, Play and Podcasting as a Couple.

You'll hear about:

  • The hidden dynamics of co‑creating with your partner (and what birth order has to do with it)
  • How "writer's block" is a myth that keeps you from creating
  • Turning conflict into a “play space” instead of a minefield in your relationship
  • And more.

And hey, Reader, everything we mention applies both to co-creating and working by yourself.

So even if you're not in relationship or have a creative partner, we discuss so many things that you can start doing in your life right now to bring all your ideas to fruition.

Whatever it is that you’ve been wanting to create — a new routine, a new job, or rekindle an old hobby — you’ll find the nudge you need here to begin… and to keep going.

I'm rooting for you!

In Joy,
Nyssa



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